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Will VR change the way we love?

  • February 14, 2017 /
  • by Tiffiny Rossi
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At Slush 2016 (Helsinki’s annual startup and tech event), Nokia showcased a music video filmed using their OZO VR camera. Although I had tried VR games and thought they were fun, this video took me to a very different emotional place. As I stood (virtually) between a young couple finding each other and falling in love, I found myself misty-eyed. If you have a VR headset, you can watch the video featuring the music of OneRepublic here.

That experience left a lasting impression on me. Something changed inside me when I was able to stand close to this couple. It was after this immersive, emotional experience that I began to wonder – will VR change the way we love?

What the experts say about love and technology

At first thought, it’s easy to wander directly to the dystopian extreme: a person falls in love with an artificial intelligence, then never wants to leave the VR environment again. But as Jacob Ward, correspondent for Al Jazeera America, reminds us,

“Connecting to our own world and not to a made up one may be the real promise of virtual reality.”

Modern courtship is typically a “slow burn”

Biological Anthropologist Helen Fisher assures us that technology is not changing the type of person you’ll love or how you’ll feel love. But Fisher does note that technology is making an impact on how we court, or how we meet and pursue others romantically.

Take matchmaking sites, for example. Fisher – who is also match.com’s science advisor – explains that these sites give people so many choices that they experience cognitive overload. And when that happens, they just can’t decide who is “Mr. or Mrs. Right” – at least not after a long processes of considering their options. Coupled with fears of divorce, what we’re seeing today is a new form of courtship Fisher calls “slow love.” The pre-commitment stage before marriage is now much longer than ever before, and technology in the form of websites, chats, social media, and dating apps has played at least some part in supporting this new model of courtship.

Love and VR

So what happens if we carry Fisher’s discussion about love and technology over into VR space? VR technology will probably make it easier to find people to love. It may even have the potential for weeding people out before you even make it to the “slow love” stage.

Going back to my experience at Slush 2016, there I joined a very small number of people in the world that have a full-body 3D scan by a company called Texel. Here’s what mine looks looks like:

From this scan, the next leap of logic is easy. Dating sites of the not-so-distant future will allow you to upload these 3D-scans and animate them so you can “pre-meet” people in a virtual environment. Instead of exchanging messages and reading profile after profile, you could just specify to meet people with certain interests in a VR cafe – all while your physical body stays at home in your pajamas. Using your virtual avatar, you could meet others and talk over a steaming cup of virtual joe. And if things work out, you could move on to meeting each other physically in real life. If not, well, your VR experience saved you the hassle of getting dressed up for a fancy dinner.

Final thoughts

Based on Fisher’s stance on love and technology, there’s no reason to suggest that VR will change how we feel love or even the type of person we will love. But it will change the way we meet, court, and share experiences with others. For all you lovebirds out there, take comfort in what Fisher has to say:

“…love and attachment will prevail, technology cannot change it.”

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Tiffiny Rossi
Tiffiny brings over a decade of technology marketing experience to Tuxera as our Head of Digital Marketing. Before joining Tuxera in 2016, she wrote about technology, consumer electronics, and industrial tech for Nokia, Microsoft, KONE Corporation, and many others. Around the office, we know Tiffiny for her love of geek culture, console gaming, and her adoration for Cloud City’s Baron Administrator, Lando Calrissian.
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